Layers panel and scene strip: scene layers header with icons, per-type layer icons, PROGRAM badge and selected/live orange borders, scene name and hotkey overlays, Starting as default scene

- LeftPanel: SCENE LAYERS header with layer count; per-type blue icons; properties header gear; layers list min/max height; properties placeholder; list and properties indent
- SceneThumbnailStrip: names/hotkeys over the tile; PROGRAM badge with blinking red dot on the selected tile; orange border on selected and live tiles; fixed the element border override that hid the style border; reflag tiles on load
- LiveScene is now set on go-live, record start, and live transitions (it was never assigned, so IsLive never fired)
- Startup stages the scene named Starting
- DESIGN.md: color roles (red = YouTube/on-air/record, orange #ff8c3a = attention, amber = game audio/Super Chat)
- Staged live tile uses background art instead of the green LIVE placeholder

Not pushed.

ViewModels/MainViewModel.cs

@@ -438,7 +438,7 @@ public partial class MainViewModel : ViewModelBase
         {
             _isLoading = false;
         }
-        StagedScene = Scenes.FirstOrDefault();
+        StagedScene = Scenes.FirstOrDefault(s => SceneCatalog.Is(s.Name, SceneCatalog.Starting)) ?? Scenes.FirstOrDefault();
         UpdateActiveBackground();
         UpdateActiveChatBoxPreviews();
         UpdateActiveAlertBoxPreviews();