fix(rec): bounded encoder queue + drop policy + burned frame counter — the "1...23...4...56..." smeared-ticker take

slice 9 made the DURATION right but content still hiccuped; aggregates (301/300, uniform
file PTS) could not see it. Measured root cause: FfmpegEncoder.SubmitFrameAsync BLOCKED
on WriteAsync(8.3MB)+FlushAsync when ffmpeg lagged the pipe, and the burst while-loop
re-wrote that same stale composite per crossed slot — frozen runs.

OBS shape (derivative, wrapped pre-1.0): the encoder queue in libobs/obs-encoder.c —
encoder thread never couples back into the video thread; overflow = dropped data, never
a frozen producer. https://github.com/obsproject/obs-studio/blob/master/libobs/obs-encoder.c

- FfmpegEncoder: SubmitFrameAsync is now an enqueue (ArrayPool copy) into a bounded
  Channel (cap 120) drained by its own task; drop-newest + count when full;
  StopAsync flushes the queue then EOF (TryComplete). IFfmpegEncoder.DroppedFrames.
- FramePump: ONE fresh composite per iteration (burst loop deleted); worst-submit stat,
  stall logger (>2x interval names the stage), dropped/stalls in stats.
- Burned-in 6-digit dot-matrix frame counter (white box, bottom-right) on every composite
  — the clock-independent judge replacing the WSL ticker: +1/frame, jumps = counted drops.
- ONE new test Backpressure_QueueOverflow_DropsFrames_AndNeverBlocks (slow-sink fake:
  submit never blocks, drops counted, stop flushes exactly submitted-minus-dropped).
- Full suite 290 tests, 289 pass — sole failure the pre-existing compositor pixel test.
- Docs same-commit: ai.md slice 10 (+ encoder/stop-note corrections), MyMistakes point 8,
  HANDOFF.

Audio untouched (queued follow-up); web overlay still frozen pending timing closure.

Services/Encoder/IFfmpegEncoder.cs

@@ -22,4 +22,9 @@ public interface IFfmpegEncoder : IDisposable
     Task StartAsync(EncoderOptions options, CancellationToken cancellationToken = default);
     Task SubmitFrameAsync(VideoFrame frame, CancellationToken cancellationToken = default);
     Task StopAsync(CancellationToken cancellationToken = default);
+
+    /// <summary>Frames dropped by the encoder's bounded queue since start (the encoder
+    /// lagging the real-time capture rate). Zero in a healthy session; fed to the pump's
+    /// stats and mirrored by gaps in the burned-in frame counter of the recording.</summary>
+    int DroppedFrames { get; }
 }