Resolution dropdown, list-focus preservation, unified dark theme, startup logging, and memory map

- Bottom-bar resolution dropdown (1080p60/1080p30/720p60/480p30) with tooltip
  on finding upload bandwidth; disabled while live; no in-app speed test
- FocusPreservingListBox keeps selection/focus coherent when a selected
  scene/source is deleted (skip hidden scenes; leave list when empty)
- Themes/Controls.xaml: single dark-theme dictionary merged once in App.xaml;
  custom ComboBox template fixes SelectionBoxItem rendering; GoLiveWindow and
  ReuseImageDialog consolidated onto shared styles
- AppLog file logger + AppDomain/Dispatcher exception hooks; checkpointed
  MainWindow/VM/dialog constructors (caught MenuItemRole.Separator XAML crash)
- Memory map: schema.md conventions, per-directory index.md, updated ai.md/
  TASKS.md/README.md (OAuth creds real; token persistence still pending)

Helpers/FocusPreservingListBox.cs

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+using System.Collections.Specialized;
+using System.Windows;
+using System.Windows.Controls;
+using System.Windows.Input;
+using System.Windows.Threading;
+
+namespace ytLive.Helpers;
+
+/// <summary>
+/// A ListBox that keeps selection and keyboard focus coherent when the
+/// selected item is deleted. Focus lands on the item now at the deleted
+/// position (the previous item when the last one was removed) or leaves
+/// the box entirely when it becomes empty. Drag-to-reorder is untouched.
+/// </summary>
+public class FocusPreservingListBox : ListBox
+{
+    /// <summary>
+    /// Predicate deciding which items the delete-focus fallback may land on
+    /// (e.g. skip hidden scenes). Null means every item is eligible.
+    /// </summary>
+    public Func<object, bool>? IsSelectable { get; set; }
+
+    protected override void OnItemsChanged(NotifyCollectionChangedEventArgs e)
+    {
+        base.OnItemsChanged(e);
+
+        if (e.Action != NotifyCollectionChangedAction.Remove) return;
+        var hadFocus = IsKeyboardFocusWithin || IsKeyboardFocused;
+        if (!hadFocus) return;
+        if (Mouse.Captured == this) return;
+
+        if (Items.Count == 0)
+        {
+            SelectedItem = null;
+            MoveFocus(new TraversalRequest(FocusNavigationDirection.Next));
+            return;
+        }
+
+        var targetIndex = FindSelectableIndex(Math.Clamp(e.OldStartingIndex, 0, Items.Count - 1));
+        if (targetIndex < 0)
+        {
+            SelectedItem = null;
+            return;
+        }
+
+        SelectedIndex = targetIndex;
+        var item = Items[targetIndex];
+
+        Dispatcher.BeginInvoke(DispatcherPriority.Loaded, () =>
+        {
+            ScrollIntoView(item);
+            if (ItemContainerGenerator.ContainerFromItem(item) is ListBoxItem container)
+                container.Focus();
+        });
+    }
+
+    private int FindSelectableIndex(int start)
+    {
+        for (var i = start; i >= 0; i--)
+            if (IsItemSelectable(i)) return i;
+        for (var i = start + 1; i < Items.Count; i++)
+            if (IsItemSelectable(i)) return i;
+        return -1;
+    }
+
+    private bool IsItemSelectable(int index)
+    {
+        if (index < 0 || index >= Items.Count) return false;
+        var item = Items[index];
+        return item != null && (IsSelectable?.Invoke(item) ?? true);
+    }
+}